Do you plan to have kinky sex? (bondage etc) or is it supratik as the act its self? Well?
And how long would you wait before venturing into the boat with your partner? |
If bondage is involved, I suppose there would have to be SOME planning, since you'll need some - accessories. ;)
Spontaneous sex is often the most exciting. No plans, just let the inner beast escape and let what happens, happen.
With most people, the issue of bondage should be discussed beforehand. Not everyone is comfortable (trusting) enough to allow someone that they don't trust completely to tie them up so that they have no control.
How long to wait? Guys are easy.
GIRL: "Wanna fcuk?"
GUY: "SURE!"
Girls often need more time
GUY: "Wanna fcuk?"
GIRL: [Slugs guy in face and steps on his balls] |
Valentines gift: What type of bondage gear for my b/f to wear not for me? I tried it once and i didn't really like being cuffed,My b/f is well up to be cuffed im sure he would like some kinky bondage wear.
One thing i might get him is a chasity belt i know he would love to wear it.
Please can you give more suggestions things seem to be made for us women. |
| Get some of that soft rope and tie his rod and boulders tightly with the rope. Make sure its not pinching anything, but is just firm and not to tight. Then make him take you out to dinner. Keep using your feet to tease him, He will be in heaven. Then when you get home, tie him down and play with his bound equipment some more before removing it and going to town. |
Kinky... bondage... S&M...... opinions ppl!!? i love it personaly, and god where do you put somthing like this... they should really have this kind of section shouldn't they.
The Master/ Slave stuff is really fit, I always go mad if I see it in a film or somthing, waht are peopels views.../ideas...?
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A little bondage, a spanking once in a while, nothing heavy.
And both ways please, give and take.
As for movies with kinky stuff: they are too few and too far in between. |
Are my boyfriend and I crazy for being kinky? We are both in our twenties and love to have crazy, kinky sex.
Bondage, spanking, role play,gags, name calling, breath play.... you name it we've done it. I know that this isn't a totally common thing, but are we really that strange? I mean, doesn't anyone else like this stuff too? It makes me embarrassed because 'normal' sex is boring, and i cannot get off to it.
I just need to know that we aren't the only ones! |
| no your not lol, do what you think is comfortable and what you like, i never had sex so i have no idea lol. but that seems fun haha. |
HOW MANY PEOPLE ARE ACTUALLY INTERESTED IN BONDAGE AND OTHER KINKY THINGS? I have felt for most of my life that I am a deviant. That I am among like 1 or 2 % that enjoy being tied up, and tying girls up, not just playfully, but hardcore, like using real handcuffs, gags, leather and all that. How many people have the same feelings. What do you guys, and girls think of this? Am I among a select few or are more people into this than I think. I don't mean light bondage, I mean heavy more serious bondage play. Am I weird? What would my girlfriend say if I asked her to get into this with me? |
It's not weird at all. In fact there's BDSM - which is an entire genre of sexual deviance. I'd say it's more like at least 20% of people are hardcore freaks.
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/BDSM |
Are there some kinky sex scenes in the movie Jade? Examples of kinky sex: Bondage, Cutting, Sharon Stone in Basic Instinct |
| Idk but we can make our own. |
You ever try to do something kinky in the bedroom, such as spanking or bondage, then realize how stupid and? boring it was and just stop midway through, saying, "What the heck's going on here?!" |
LOL actually, yes. We got this thing that goes under the mattress that has deals at all four edges so we can tie each other up. At first I thought it was gonna be soooo great, and how cool it was that I could easily hide it under the mattress and the guys would never find it, yada yada. Anyway, after the first couple of times, I realized, one person always ends up doing the work (ahem, that would be me) and then you have to make sure you get up and put everything away before you fall asleep so the guys dont come in the next morning and see it, and so that ruins that whole "cuddling in the afterglow" thing.....just all around more crap than I wanted to deal with.
**Edit - Woogs....glad I could make you laugh! ;-) The sad thing is....when I was 22, I would have NEVER thought sex could be something I could ever be laughing about....oh my how the years have changed me!! LMAO
Sugar Plum - unfortunately, I cant lock my bedroom door, because there is no lock on it....and I do not know how to install one...and well, lets just say that getting the hubby to do it probably isn't gonna happen anytime soon....maybe I will go to Lowe's and have the hardware store boys show me how! ;-) LOL |
Quick bondage question? My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 2 months, and I really want to have some kinky bondage sex with her but I don't know how to ask her. HELP |
| I'd say make an off handed comment and see if she bites, then you'll know if she's into it. |
We used to be kinky. I still am, but she isn't anymore.? For the first several years of our relationship, she and I were very kinky - bondage and costumes, that sort of thing. She's moved on, only wants vanilla these days. How can get her kinky again, or get myself to move on as well? |
Maybe you need to find a new kink or take the same kink to a different level. We were very kinky before we got married and then for the fist 15 years married things became progressively less kinky, until about 4 years ago when things began to pickup. Now I wonder if I can keep up with her, LOL!
Sometimes people need a break from kink too, I think. When you do something all the time it looses the kink factor. Sometimes we do roleplaying an dcostumes. Sometimes we do whips, other times wax, and still other times rope. Some days all we need is to just have sex. Talk to her about it.
Ever been to a kink convention? Maybe that will jumpstart things! |
What's the most kinky thing you've ever done? not to be overly graphic-but whats the most kinky thing you've ever done with someone? whips? chains? bondage? roleplaying? |
wellI had *** with a bout 3 men who I had found a this bar . so while drunk my freind kinda helped but she passed out from too many drinks and from her guy, after words one of them offered me a ride if all I wore on the way out was my g-string and my bra. then the same night I did it with a neihbor for kicks
he was into BDSM |