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Why are gay guys so hung up about types? Ok Im an ordinary guy next door. Ok looking, not muscle fit but not severely overweight either. However I find that it's hard to find someone special because gay guys always want gymfit muscle marys or slim slender smooth go-go boy types. You must wear the right labels, have the right cosmetics and be a size O. Amazingly even the most awful dogs sometimes put in their dating profile - only hunks need apply.
I find that in the straight world women are not so hung up to find a hunk and Im pretty popular as a "potential huband" to my female acquantances who are not aware of my sexuality. They often get disappointed when i tell them Im more into blokes and they often say if ever i turn straight they would date me. Why is that? Are gays that shallow?
I find that it's especially bad among Asian gays. If you are over 30 you're past it (unless you're rich). If you dont wear the right labels or not muscle-y you're not worth knowing. It's no wonder that people like myself do not settle down with a guy. | | You got me. It's like as soon as your 30 your an old man and at 40, you turn into this disgusting twink leach, leaving trails of video games and candy down to your basement. I'm interesting and attractive, with a great job. What do they have to offer in return? Clumsy sex? Who the f-ck wants a guy who can't go away for a weekend with you because his grandma's coming to visit? | If Hunk n' Spicy wants Edna, is Edna Hung? Who thinks I should get him? | | OMG. That has got me rolling on the floor!!! funny | Why do you all think I am selfish lover when I in fact make sure my wife is being taken care of by young hunks I might want the 19 year old girl but I will make sure my wife gets hers also. She likes em handsome and hung so I would make sure the19 year old procures my wife a hot stud.
So you all need not tell me I am being selfish. | | DANG! I WISH YOU WERE MY HUSBAND. | Are men more hung up on ''type'' than women and why? It seems that a lot of men have a ''type'' they are attracted to. They seem to have this dream girl in their mind and it tends to diminish the relationships they get into and the woman isn't ''up to standard'' as far as the mental image is in his mind. Is this true? I know women can do it too but obviously more men love to be ''seen'' with a hot babe on their arm and tend to get more unhappy in their relationships if the woman loses some of her shape or looks through time and having babies for him! Whats up? Are there any quality thinking men out there who aren't too shallow. I know we all do it a little but we do have brains and intellect to shut out the ''animalistic'' nature that tends to show itself in a lot of men. Like they are hunters. it is degrading to women and i wish i could find a man who isn't so shallow. I thought i found one but he ended up just as shallow and hung up on everything physical when we have so much going for us. Time is short and none of us are perfect. Why do women put up with men who are ugly and lack in such physical characteristics that make a man a ''hunk''. Do we settle for less more or are we deeper in heart and more intelligent in mind? just asking. | scene guys, emo guys, punks, skater, preps. all those random genres of dumb fcuks and all those that want partners that fall under a specific one "oh, how do i get a skater/emo boyfriend?"... this really is appalling! or just as plain as blonde/brunette,blue/green eyes, fit, curves.... etc
don't get me wrong, i am a shallow guy but the only other alternative is simply taking whoever you can get! [which i think is worse.]
There are over 3,000,000,000 people of the opposite sex in the world.. you want a 1-in-a-million and you've still got a choice of 3,000 people.. and most would turn gay for that 1-in-a-million person so we can say 6,000 choices! why not be picky?!?!?
but to be more helpful, we go follow the animalistic approach to relationships [even though we pretend not to].... males are attracted to good looks(indicates good genes) and females are attracted to high-status and dominance (indicates the alpha male.. better provider!) | Why are many gay guys hung up about looks? I have a number of gay friends who will only date beautiful people. The thing I hate is that they are very bluntly bitchy to the faces of people who they dont consider "beautiful" without consideration for those people's feelings. The funny thing is this even applies to some gay friends who are not that beautiful themselves. For example I have a gay friend who would only go out with hunks. He once went out on a blind date and when he saw the guy (whom he didnt consider attractive enough for him) he told the guy, "I'd rather not go out on this date with you." and just walked off. I mean, this guy took the trouble to come out into London to go on this blind date with him. And sorry to say, my friend's no Eric Dane himself. I told him that but he just told me, "I have my standards."
Is this a normal thing in the gay community? I seem to notice this as a prevalent attitude. | This is why the gay community is so shallow and will never be able to unite. Then they b***h and whine and complain that the straights will not accept them.
WE need to be accepting of our own, before we can expect any one else to. | Hey pretty boy...How can I win you over? Is there any chance I can win these kind of guys without have to shed my blood?
If he's too good to be true than he must be a sin
If his body that hot, he must be the devil
If he's so beautiful, there must be price tag on him
If you're an average guy, not hung, not even hunk. Is there any chance I win these guys over?
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without have to pay them $250+ per hour? | | Some guys want more than just a hot body (although that is nice.) If you are a great guy that is most important. If it is just for sex, then all you want is a hot body. That seems to be all you want form these men. If you are that shallow about it, then you can expect others to be the same way about you, and you will never score with these guys. | How is this fantasy novel so far? “Darcie Vivienne Anderson! Your father would like to speak to you!”
Ugh. I hated my full name, but a name like ‘Darcie Vivienne’ is what you get when your father is a millionaire. Most teenage girls would love to have a rich daddy but not me. It was so annoying, especially the maids. I mean, who in the world has maids and butlers?! It wasn’t normal.
I turned to the red headed woman, and gave a gracious smile. “Thank you, Annabelle. Tell my father I shall be in to see him in a moment,” I said as politely as possible. I also hated to have to talk like a lady around my father and the help. Annabelle left my room, leaving me to sit in silence, wondering and dreading what my father wanted to talk to me about. My father never wanted to talk to me, unless I was in trouble; he was always too busy working – but as far as I could remember I hadn’t got into any trouble recently. I breathed in and out slowly, trying to calm myself down. Time to go and see what ‘daddy dearest’ wanted.
His office was down the corridor from my bedroom. One step. Two steps. I slowly walked towards the double doors at the end of the hallway. My slender fingers gently tapped on the wooden doors. A deep, tired voice came from within. “Enter.” I guess that was what my father sounded like, but I never really heard him speak. He was always in this horrible office.
I did as the voice said. When inside the office, I looked around but it was hard because of the lighting – or rather, the lack of it. It was extremely dark, the only light coming from the expensive black laptop on the desk and through a crack in the velvet curtains. I managed to make out my father sitting in the corner in a big armchair, a book placed precisely on the “W-why is it so dark in here?” I asked, stammering slightly through nervousness.
“I like it dark,” he replied simply, before adding, “So you are probably wondering why I asked you to come here, Darcie.”
“Yes, father, because I have not misbehaved anytime in the recent past.”
“Do you think I do not know this? You are not in trouble, dear guy,” he said, standing up from his chair and walking over to me. One hand was placed on my shoulder, which I quickly shrugged off. I saw he looked a bit heavyhearted as I did this, but I couldn’t help it, it was just plain weird when my father tried to make contact with me. Ever since I could remember he had been secluded from me... he never really seemed to care.
“Then why did you ask to see me?” I was growing more and more curious.
“Well, Darcie... you are now 16, and when a young lady reaches that age she must consider her... options, you could say. Luckily for you, I have considered your options for you. In exactly a month’s time, you will marry Daxton Walkerson.”
With these words my heart sank. Daxton was the resident snob. His family was even richer than mine and he certainly acted like he was rich. He was dreamy, sure, with brown curls and bright blue eyes which you could easily get lost in. I knew that for sure, but he knew he was dreamy. He thought he was better than everyone else. I couldn’t marry someone like Daxton. He was much better suited to the bimbos that hung on his every word – like Chandra and Malika, who were only really good for fawning over ‘hunks’ and lying on their back for men.
“I simply cannot marry that buffoon! I would rather die than marry Daxton!” I said his name the way a person might say ‘disgusting disease-ridden vermin’. That was pretty much all he was to me.
“Now, Darcie... I understand your resentment, but this is for the best,” he tried to explain, but I didn’t want to listen.
“No. You never listen. You never care. Ever since mum died you’ve hidden away from me! So what? Is this your new way to make sure I’m out of your way... marry me off and then I’ll be too busy being a little housewife to annoy you, father? Is that it?” All I could see was red. My disappointment had melted away and now it was replaced with rage. This may sound terrible but all I wanted to do was hit my father, right in his smug little face. Maybe then he would rethink making me marry.
Ouch.
I didn’t even realise that I was digging my nails into palms. I guess the pain was stopping me hitting the foolish man before me. “If you make me marry, you will no longer be my father. You will just be the man I live with,” I said, the words like acid as I turned around and stormed out of the room. | You tell an interesting story, and yet, the character can tell the story for you in the way that she acts and speaks, without you having to add the inner monologue.
Where is this set?
Why would they obtain this 'fancy talk' and 'arranged marriage set up' if the book was set in modern times (laptop on desk).
Remember that your reader is also not there with you as you're writing it, so you need to add cues to help them visualize the space as you see it. What did the hall look like? Where was Darcie before the maid called her? Was she sitting on her Victorian styled bed with velvet sheets and fluffy white pillows?
What does her father do?
What does he look like?
What does Darcie look like?
Why is she such a snob?
Someone raised rich, does not think that having maids is wrong. Why does Darcie hate everyone, including the maids?
I personally, think she is too angsty. if you want readers to follow along the with story and cheer for the heroine to win, you've got to make her lovable, relatable.
For example, a problem I had with the House of Night Series was that the main character was excluded from the ability to obtain virtues, and yet, she was a heroine who always had the help of her friends. I stopped reading the series because it got to one point where I'd rather crawl into the pages and chop her head off than cheer for her to save the world.
What does Darcie have that we like?
Why do we want her to win? | Okay. One down and like, 20-something to go...? "A Sausage Sonnet"
These tender hunks of flesh entice the tongue
Inviting me to eat until I nut.
I flip the links and dream of pigs well hung
The sizzle of the grease incites my gut.
While shoving down my fifth I hear a sound
A rumble from below that gives a fright
It's Bootsie growling madly on the ground!
She stares intently, pressing for a bite!
At last I'm down to one remaining link
Her growl has turned to begging now, it seems
I contemplate her plight and give a wink
Fulfilling all her wondrous sausage dreams.
So now I'm hungry, pissed, and quite upset
Dear Bootsie, that's the last you'll ever get! | It is a sonnet about a sausage and a dog...
'Her growl has turned to begging now, it seems
I contemplate her plight and give a wink
Fulfilling all her wondrous sausage dreams.
So now I'm hungry, pissed, and quite upset
Dear Bootsie, that's the last you'll ever get'
Now, why does that sound so wrong? lol | So my girlfriend wants to go see some male strippers...? This coming Friday my girlfriend said that the Vegas Hunks are going to be close by at a bar. She didn't say directly that she wants to go, but her talking about it with her friends kinda states the obvious of what she wants. To be perfectly honest I know that my apprehension concerning her going to see other guys practically nude at least in part has something to do with insecurity within myself. My question is how do I deal with that? I know that some of that comes from the fact that I've been cheated on several times. I also had a lot of female friends that I have hung out with and have seen how they are when their men aren't around. They're not much different from men, really. Lately most of them are talking about Jacob from twilight and what not, kinda like how men will go and talk about how hot Pamela Anderson or Angelina Joli is, you know? I understand that it's natural to be attracted to the opposite sex, however I always believed that if you're committed to a monogamous relationship that you made every effort to control those urges and focus only on the one you're with. I'll admit for sure I've been tempted to go look at other women, and I've caught myself glancing back at someone I saw who might have been attractive and I immediately avert my gaze. But, from what I've been told, if the person you're with is enough for you, then why should a person go and intentionally try to objectify someone else's body? I know some of you are thinking, "Well if she goes and gets all hot and bothered she'll want to come home and have sex." I'm sure that's a possibility, but I'm afraid she'll be thinking about someone other than me if that happens.
I guess what I'm looking for here is a solid explanation as to why it's ok. I don't want to hear that it's "normal" because that kind of answer is really just a cop-out and sounds like a justification. I mean, I don't go to strip joints because I would never want my girl to feel like she wasn't enough for me. She's beautiful, so why do I need to look at anyone else's body?
So I'm faced with a decision. I want to trust her. I want to build my own securities within myself. I can either be the super-cool boyfriend that surprises her with tickets and goes with her and her girlfriends to the show, or I can play it safe, stick to my morals, and just say no. What's your guys' opinions?
Don't sugar coat it for me lol thanks in advance. | I understand both Your point of view, and well as Hers.
I dont know her personally (Obviously), but this going to a strip club with her friends could just be an innocent night of fun. I know if I were in her shoes that is how I would feel about the situation.
Obviously she is with you for a reason or two. She isnt leaving you for a stripper. She may get turned on by them, but that is just what a human body does. I know you dont want me to say "It is just normal to be curious" or whatever. But honestly... It is normal, like you said, you find yourself looking at other girls who seem to be attractive and whatnot, then avert your gaze.
I see where you may be insecure, with past gf's cheating on you. But from what I gather, she has been faithful. Put some trust into your girl.
Until she proves to you that she is untrustworthy... Trust her.
She will LOVE you for it. | How do you break off a "friendship" with someone ill? I have known this person, give or take, 7 years. We originally had a class together in one of my first semesters of college. Our official introduction was in the bathroom at school after I got up and left the classroom, I truly felt as if she followed me in there but I overcame that idea and figured even if she did she was trying to make a friend... instantly I did not like her for several reasons. From across the room she was very beautiful and exotic looking however, was loud in class, obnoxious, had a terrible odor, extremely overweight (not that this would matter but it just didn't mesh well with her personality to begin with) and overall just didn't have the best hygiene. Over the years I hung out with her "here and there" bc I felt bad for her and her medical problems and she just seemed to need a friend. She had developed hormonal diseases amongst other difficulties.
The handful of times I hung out with her, we would go to the mall for lunch/window shop and she would be very forward and pushy with people in retail stores and was extremely embarrassing so I stopped that. When she would call me I would answer and all I would hear in response to my, "hello" was loud sobbing and crying to the point where I had to jerk my ear from the phone. I started forwarding her calls to voicemail and she would leave loud sobbing messages crying, sniffeling and whining. Whether it be about her health, friend issues, her boy-crazy problems, petty family arguments or whatever it was, she vented to me.
So long story short... in between the years we would lose touch because I simply couldn't take anymore and would lash out at her but then she'd pop up out of nowhere and say, "its been so long, we really need to get together!"- as if we never had a blowout!
I consider this girl a mere acquaintance, NOT a friend. She doesn't even really know me that well. however here is my problem: for the passed 6months or so has been trying diligently to hang out with me but I have SO moved on from that relationship a long time ago that I really want nothing to do with her. She is constantly asking me to hook her up with my "hunk boyfriend's hot friends". I hate to break the news to her that they'd be repulsed but I'd never set anyone up with her anyway. So, P.S. The girl has been in and out of the hospital for years with so many surgeries and issues and is now suffering from brain lesions. I don't know the severity of it bc I haven't made the time to talk to her about it bc I am simply just not concerned. Im not by any means, inhuman, selfish or insensitive. Overall I just want this girl out of my life. How do I handle this?? | | You will probably never truly get rid of her unless you get so mad that yo say something that makes her pull away form her - other than that you are doing about what you can. Not taking or returning phone calls, being "too busy" |
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